While you were sleeping

Baby is asleep… Finally!!!  Quickly, do something! This is the time you have to yourself! Make it count! Do something for you! A mom is to rest when the baby is taking a nap they say! I slowly remove my finger away from her palm and replace it with the leg of her teddy bear……

Things I learned after I had my daughter

That she is wonderful beyond any expectation and anything I had imagined before I had her. That physical pain doesn’t end with child birth. I was completely unprepared for the amount of pain nursing entails. I would have gladly given birth once more, in exchange for the discomfort of breast feeding! That bragging about how peaceful your baby…

Do you speak love?

In my everyday life I speak Greek, English and Norwegian. I communicate in Greek with my family, speak English and Norwegian at work, use Norwegian everywhere else and write in English. With Greek being my mother tongue, I naturally make mistakes when I use the other two languages and have a more limited vocabulary. I try not to, but I…

Winter is coming

4 degrees Celsius in Oslo this morning and it’s easy to see that winter is coming. The weather’s getting colder, the days are getting shorter and there isn’t much more to do than to accept the inevitability of the seasons changing. Winter is not our favorite season, yet knowing it’s coming we prepare ourselves, dress warmer, get more comfortable at home,…

The familiar

A couple of days ago, I wrote about the price I had to pay, when I moved from Greece to Norway. I wrote about how I sometimes feel alone in my greekness,  but being a Greek is really of little significance in the context of moving abroad. I could have been an Italian living in Norway…

The price to pay

A very widespread opinion about the greek diaspora, is that we chose the easy way, which is to leave Greece and the crisis it’s in and settle abroad. People who stil live in Greece, think of us as people who are doing very well, people who have perfect jobs and perfect lives. My goal with…

Cogito ergo sum?

Maybe thinking was Descartes’s way of being in 1637, but a lot has happened in these 380 years and humanity has evolved … No that’s not entirely right… Technology has evolved so much, that it introduced us to new amazing, fulfilling ways of existing, some of which are listed below. I hashtag, therefore I exist…

The great journey

A month ago, I was in Thailand and right after I returned, I started thinking of the next vacation. To think of that in March, is slightly unusual here. Norwegians usually plan their summer vacation already  in January, after the Christmas and New Year’s festivities are over, a time that also happens to be the…

Today

Today, not tomorrow. Because for every “tomorrow” you’ve told yourself, you have constituted today an imperfect day, a day to be spent on not very important activities, rather than what you really want to do. Today, not tomorrow or yesterday. Yesterday is hopeless and it’s useless to ponder on it.  Tomorrow is full of possibility, but for every…

New Year’s resolutions

2017 is finally here, allowing us to put behind a year that seems to have taken from us more than it brought. In that moment the year changed, I think we were all a little relieved and hopeful as to what the new year will bring. Regardless of how difficult 2016 specifically was, we always…